Sådan spørger du efter hvad du vil i soveværelset.

Sådan spørger du efter hvad du vil i soveværelset.

Sex er vidunderligt, dette udsagn kan de fleste af os godt blive enige om. Men det kan til tider være lidt frustrerende, ret akavet og måske endda pinligt. Et udsagn vi hører ofte er at folk ikke får det, de vil have i soveværelset.

For nogle kan udsigten til at tale om lyster og fantasier med sin partner være en skræmmende tanke. Men det behøver det ikke at være.

Grundårsagen er ofte at de fleste mennesker er, at de ikke er sikre i deres kommunikation omkring deres ønsker, for nogle er de ikke engang sikre på, hvad det er de ønsker i sengen.

Frygt aldrig! Vi vil komme med nogle toptips, så du har alle de værktøjer, du har brug for at vide –Hvad du vil have i sengen og hvordan man beder om det.

Elsk dig selv!

elsk dig selvAt lære, hvad du kan lide og ikke lide i sengen, er nøglen til et tilfredsstillende sexliv, og er noget du nemt kan opdage ved dig selv.

Onani kommer med en lang række sundhedsmæssige fordele, men samtidig med, at det kan gavne dit fysiske og mentale velfærd, kan det også skabe et mere tilfredsstillende sexliv i det lange løb.

Ved at udforske din egen krop lærer du hvad der virker for dig, og hvad der ikke gør det, og at være selvsikker i denne viden gør det lettere at kommunikere disse præferencer til en partner.

Så næste gang du finder dig selv med en friaften, har du en date med dig selv. Opbyg stemningen med et par stearinlys, nogle af dine yndlingssange på anlægget, nogle friske lagner og lad det sjove begynde.

Vær ikke bange for at eksperimentere, og prøv en stimuleringsmetode, du normalt ikke ville benytte. Når alt kommer til alt, når vi er alene og der ikke er noget pres, slapper vi bedre af og tillader os selv at opdage noget helt nyt!

Hvis du vil gå hele vejen, hvorfor så ikke bruge noget nyt sexlegetøj? Start med noget simpelt som en vibrerende bullet, vacum vibrator eller kærligheds æg vibrator, da de er perfekte til at lege med en partner, når du har prøvet det selv.

Kommunikation er nøglen

Medmindre din partner er tankelæser (og det er langt de færreste, men der er sikkert en del som ville synes det var fantastisk hvis han/hun er det) så vil din partner ikke vide, hvad du vil have i sengen, medmindre du fortæller det. Det har uden tvivl sine fordele, men der er langt imellem tankelæserne, og du er sikkert heller ikke en af dem, og kan derfor ikke overraske kæresten på vedkommendes fødselsdag, med lige DET han/hun fantasere om. Så det ser ud til, at vi er nød til at tye til den gammeldags måde og snakke med din partner.

Til at starte med, så lav en liste over alle de sexhandlinger, du elsker at lave, alle dem du gerne vil prøve og dem som overhoved ikke kan komme på tale og så bed din partner om at gøre det samme.

Dette giver dig en praktisk oversigt over nye spændende stillinger og handlinger, I kan prøve. Desuden er det en rigtig god måde at bryde isen på, når det kan være svært at sætte ord på.

Hvis dette er tilfældet for dig, så er det super vigtigt at huske, at dette er absolut intet at være flov over. Mange mennesker deler denne ubehag og kæmper for at diskutere deres seksuelle lyster.

Det kan også være værd at skrive ned, hvilke navne du foretrækker at bruge til kropsdele, da du vil føle dig meget mere rolig og diskutere sex og din krop med en partner, hvis i begge bruger ord, som i er tilfreds med.

Når det kommer til de finere detaljer om sex, så skal du altid huske, at det er vigtigt at give din partner feedback både under og efter. I første omgang kan det føles som om du kritiserer deres teknik, men slutresultatet er større tilfredshed for jer begge. Men når du giver feedbacken, så prøv at tage udgangspunkt i dig selv, fx jeg kan rigtig godt lide når du gør såd’n og såd’n.

Uanset om det er en simpel "speed up", "slow down" eller "lidt til venstre", vil den reaktion, du giver, når du nyder sex, slette enhver bekymring som din partner måtte have. Det er derfor super vigtigt at du har positiv lyd på når han/hun gør det helt rigtige for dig.

Øv dig i at virke åben og imødekommende! Start f.eks. dine sætninger ud med en kompliment, efterfulgt af dit forslag og brug altid ‘og’ fremfor ‘men’:

“Jeg synes simpelthen, at det er så dejligt, når du … og det giver mig virkelig lyst til, at vi…”

“Det tænder mig helt vildt, når du … og jeg kunne også godt tænke mig, hvis vi…”

‘men’ er negativt ladet og ikke særlig imødekommende. Hvis du f.eks. siger:

“Du gør mig så liderlig, når du …, men jeg tænkte på, om vi ikke skulle prøve …”

…, så lyder det hurtigt lidt anklagende og signalerer utilfredshed – og det kan vi altså ikke rigtig lide!  brug i stedet ‘og’ – det signalerer, at du, fremfor at være utilfreds, bare gerne vil tilføje noget ‘mere’ til jeres sexliv!

Få dem til at efterligne deres foretrukne teknik til at modtage og kopiere de bevægelser, de laver med dine egne læber og tunge. Det kan lyde som en masse arbejde, men tro mig, resultaterne er det værd og vil efterlade jer begge yderst tilfredse.

For den lille ekstra selvtillid under oralsex kan eksperimentering med smagsstoffer sikkert forbedre din oplevelse og også fjerne al nervøsitet for hvordan du mon smager eller dufter.

Det er bare sjov og leg

Lege kan være en fantastisk måde at åbne Jer for nye seksuelle oplevelser. Vi har all prøvet at spille ”Truth or dare”(Sandhed eller konsekvens) eller ”Jeg har aldrg…”, som altid endte med at blive en smule fræk, nu når du tænker tilbage på det.

Exxxtase Erotisk Spil, Love Dice Kama Sutra Terninger er super fine spil til at udvide dine seksuelle horisonter og eksperimentere med det du nyder at gøre ved din partner, eller som et fantastisk alternativ til en date-night hvor I ikke kan blive enige om hvilken film i vil putte i sofaen til.

Af danske spil kan fx nævnes, Erotic 4 Real. Og er det bedste danske erotiske spil på markedet. Det er et kombineret samlivs- og erotik spil og handler altså ikke kun om sex og lyst, men lige så meget om følelser og moral.

Spillet er sjovt og inspirerende, og er en måde at komme til at lære hinanden bedre at kende på og komme hinanden nærmere og i det hele taget bare få ”lukket op”. http://erotic4real.dk/

Og hvem ved? Pludselig kan du måske give Christian Grey og Ana Steele baghjul, med dine ny fundne soveværelses selvtillid!

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